A British bloke says he’s happy for his other-half to have sex with other men while he’s away at work and says it’s not cheating as he’s ‘involved’.
Matt, 36, and 31-year-old Zoe, from the UK, had only been dating a few months when he suggested that she sleep with other men - and somewhat surprisingly, it didn’t lead to a relationship break down, with Matt even declaring there’s more trust between the couple than anyone he’s ever dated before.
Appearing on the YouTube series Love Don’t Judge, Matt explained that he had initially suggested the idea.
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Speaking to Zoe in the clip, he explained: “When you agreed to it, I was happy with it, because I’ve spoken to you previously - I’d been cheated on [before], so I was quite happy to find someone who wasn’t going to cheat behind my back.”
So with Matt’s permission, Zoe began going out and meeting other guys and would have sex with them while he was at work,
But he wasn’t missing out - as she would send Matt videos and photos.
“You’d send me pictures, videos,” Matt recalled.
“I ended up being involved in it [virtually]… It was like my own amateur porn.”
And this actually led to a career change for Zoe, who now runs an OnlyFans account, where she shares adult content.
Matt admits that at times he has been jealous, but insists that it’s a ‘nice feeling’.
“I wouldn’t say I’d never be jealous,” he revealed. “It’s quite a nice feeling, even though it’s jealousy.
“Because at the end of the day you know you’re included, and you know you're coming home to me.”
After Zoe branched out with other blokes, she suggested to Matt that he follow suit and arrange his own hookups with women outside of their relationship - but he was initially hesitant.
“I never wanted to sleep with anyone else,” he told Zoe. “You wanted to see me do it.”
Now the pair go to swinging clubs together where they’ll both happily have sex with other people.
Despite the unusual setup, it works for Matt and Zoe, who say that they trust one another and don’t consider the sex outside their relationship as cheating.
Zoe said: “Many people think it’s a form of cheating but it’s not because I don’t do anything behind [Matt’s] back.”
Matt added in: “We hide nothing from each other - at all - because there’s no need. Like I say, there’s more trust in this relationship than I've had with all the others. “
Topics: Sex and Relationships, OnlyFans
Claire Reid