A powerful new short film is shining a light on the insidious nature of coercive control.
Van Wife, a collaboration between LADbible, Women's Aid, and Merman, offers a chillingly realistic depiction of domestic abuse. This is a story about how abuse can go unnoticed, about the subtle ways someone can manipulate and control their partner, eroding their freedom and sense of self.
The film follows a young couple, Liv and Jack, heading off on a #vanlife adventure, documenting their journey on social media. To the outside world, they seem to be living the dream. But behind the picture-perfect facade, a darker reality is unfolding.
He controls the finances, her phone, her passport. He isolates her from her friends, shames her about what she eats, and dictates her appearance. His criticisms, initially disguised as concern, escalate into emotional, verbal and physical abuse.
Throughout the film, we witness the gradual erosion of her confidence and independence. Eventually, Liv bravely escapes her abusive partner at the ferry terminal where she’s met by a male friend who knew something wasn’t right and came to support her.
Van Wife is a wake-up call. It shows how domestic abuse can happen to anyone and highlights the importance of recognising the signs and supporting those who may be trapped in abusive relationships, before it’s too late.
So, how did Van Wife come about? The partnership between LADbible, leading domestic abuse charity Women's Aid, and production company Merman (known for their work on Bad Sisters and Motherland) was created to raise awareness of coercive control and empower individuals to take action.
Merman explains: "Following on from the success of Bad Sisters, Women’s Aid first approached Merman with the desire to create a short film in conjunction with their 50th anniversary. Teaming up further with LADbible, achieving the perfect synergy for reaching a widespread young audience.
“For the women who see themselves reflected in Liv’s story, and for the onlookers who are seeking the courage to speak up about a loved one, this film is dedicated to you."
Van Wife shines a light on those red flags we might miss and encourages us to check in with ourselves and our friends. If something feels off, it probably is. Don't be afraid to speak up – you could make a huge difference in someone's life.
Billy Lucas, LADbible’s Creative Producer for the project, said: “The cases of coercive, controlling and abusive behaviour keep rising, so without education and support we fear numbers will only continue their upward trajectory.
“After watching Van Wife, we hope that our audience will be able to spot the signs of coercive and controlling behaviour and know how to act on them. Sharing the film with friends and family will also help to spread the message and educate.”
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, please reach out for help. You are not alone. Help and support is available from www.womensaid.org.uk.
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Thomas Thorn