In late 2024, Lily Phillips went viral after sharing she had slept with 101 men in a single day.
But now she’s settled on just one man, as she’s in a monogamous relationship with boyfriend Sammy.
Well, outside of her continued sex work she’s with just the one.
And while he’s totally ‘understanding’ and fine with her working in the adult industry, he’s set a boundary for the relationship.
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I mean, that’s pretty fair enough, every relationship’s should have boundaries so you each feel safe and secure – it doesn’t matter if you’re on OnlyFans or not.
Sammy met Lily through a mutual friend, ‘Australia’s most sexually active woman’ Annie Knight. So, it’s fair to say he already had quite an awareness of the kind of work she’d be doing before becoming boyfriend and girlfriend.
“He’s the most understanding, caring, thoughtful person ever – he’s more on the sensitive side,” Lily told Metro.
“I’m not someone who would go for toxic masculinity because I don’t think we’d gel well with my job anyway.”
With her job not causing any kind of issue in their relationship, she added that Sammy just cares if she is ‘safe and happy’.
But he did ask to set just one boundary with her while she carries on working; no kissing other men. And Lily absolutely doesn’t mind this.
“I’m the type of person who finds kissing quite intimate, so I’m happy to save that for my relationship,” she explained.
“Otherwise it’s just my job – I go to work and then I come home to him.”
In fact, one time she came home from working a gang bang, Sammy had left her a box of chocolates and a card on her bed, reading: “I’m so proud of you for working so hard.”
Having met just over two months ago, Lily said she fancied him ‘straight away’ and the pair got on ‘like a house on fire’, staying in the same house together since.
Sammy plans to follow the creator back to England at the start of next month and plans to live with her.
The 24-year-old added that the 27-year-old has met her parents on FaceTime, ‘has his own money’ and loves her ‘not because of my job’.
“It’s so nice and validating that someone does love me and I was put on this planet for a reason,” Lily said.
“I used to be so monetary and cared so much about the stupidest things, now I just feel grateful for everything in my life.”
What have other adult stars said about how their career impacts their relationships?
Mia Khalifa
Khalifa, who became infamous in 2014 after shooting a sexual scene in a hijab, said in an interview last year she's only had two relationships in ten years.
She told The Adam Friedland Show: "I can't even like mentally get past somebody wanting to be with me for the novelty or for that reason [because of her famous porn scene]. So, I'd much rather just be alone."
Riley Reid
On a 2018 episode of the Impaulsive podcast, Reid said one of her exes made her feel like she should quit the industry.
She said: "He didn't want to kiss me when I came home from work.
"So, like, [it] made me feel like a disgusting person."
Sky Bri
The star told Mommy Daddy Talk: "I’m actually going to be single for the rest of my life.
"Actually, OK - not for the rest of my life. But I think for the rest of my social-media-influencer adult internet persona life.
"Because it’s just too much. And if I were ever to get into another relationship, it would be kept completely private.
"I will never post a guy or have anything public, because I don’t want public opinion."
Lana Rhoades
The star wrote in an X post back in 2020 advising young women not to get into porn: "Your bf’s will tell you that know [sic] one else will ever love you bc of your past, and it [will] be held over you everyday of your life."
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