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Crew member reveals major secrets about dating and relationships onboard a cruise ship
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Published 07:40 11 Mar 2025 GMT

Crew member reveals major secrets about dating and relationships onboard a cruise ship

A long-time cruise ship crew member has revealed how relationships work between those onboard

Joshua Nair

Joshua Nair

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Relationships on a cruise ship might bring your mind to one place - but we're not here to talk about spicy cruises.

This is all about the crew and how they might cope with all those months at sea.

While you might be interested in how it is being a passenger on one of those worldwide cruises, the crew are often forgotten about.

Some cruise crew members have previously revealed how much they earn as part of their jobs, which involves a lot travelling and seeing parts of the world. What a tough life.

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But now, content creator and YouTuber Bryan James has made a video speaking specifically about relationships between those working onboard, after spending years working aboard passenger vessels.

The content creator revealed how easy it easy for crew members to form connections onboard (YouTube/Bryan James)
The content creator revealed how easy it easy for crew members to form connections onboard (YouTube/Bryan James)

Bryan is a country music singer aboard ships, and often shares his experiences through his channel, including some luxury rooms that you can book out on cruises.

He may know a thing or two about relationships too, often including his dancer girlfriend Jaidyn Lenz in his videos, as the two revealed how things can get hot and steamy below deck.

Sitting on a beach together, Bryan mentioned that he opened a Q&A on his Instagram account, noting that there's one question that everyone wants to know the answer to as he read out: "Where is the action taking place below deck, are there relations between crew members?"

He admitted that 'there's a whole world' below deck, noting that the ship he was on had 2,300 crew members.

"I'd say if you want the best chance of getting 'boom boom' action, you'd go to Crew Bar," Bryan said, before being interrupted by Jaidyn.

After giggling about it, he clarified that he meant you could 'meet somebody' down there.

He went on: "Everyone that you see around you, you know you're going to see every single day for the next 6 months."

But his girlfriend chimed in, saying that she doesn't go there and that there are other ways.

Bryan then revealed a huge factor that could help you in forming a relationship: "The nicer your room is, the higher the likelihood of you meeting somebody that wants to come back to your room with you - so if you've got a port hole, or a big bed, or you get room service, it's just magic," he admitted.

Both agreed that it isn't all that hard to have fun with other crew members onboard (YouTube/Bryan James)
Both agreed that it isn't all that hard to have fun with other crew members onboard (YouTube/Bryan James)

"Somehow, just somehow, people think you're funnier and nicer and more worth spending their time with but if you got a bunk bed um... Good Luck," he advised.

Jaidyn then cleverly pointed out: "You have a really small bed, you a really small cabin!"

Bryan then simply added: "TLDR: if you want boom boom action, just get on a ship - everybody's stuck here for months at a time and you'll put your ship goggles on," explaining that people you would 'never have considered' on land will then seem like a good fit.

Well, that seems easy enough.

Featured Image Credit: YouTube/Bryan James

Topics: Travel, YouTube, Cruise Ship, Sex and Relationships

Joshua Nair
Joshua Nair

Joshua Nair is a journalist at LADbible. Born in Malaysia and raised in Dubai, he has always been interested in writing about a range of subjects, from sports to trending pop culture news. After graduating from Oxford Brookes University with a BA in Media, Journalism and Publishing, he got a job freelance writing for SPORTbible while working in marketing before landing a full-time role at LADbible. Unfortunately, he's unhealthily obsessed with Manchester United, which takes its toll on his mental and physical health. Daily.

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