Woman who sleeps with married men shares main signs partner is cheating
Even in a world where swinging and hotwifing is apparently more common than ever, people still find a way to cheat in their relationships.
You'd hope that talking about it and just ending the relationship, or even opening it up, would be the solution for folks who are desperate to get down and dirty with someone different.
Despite the shame that's attached to stigma, it seems as if people are still fascinated by cheating, especially when someone is able to get away with it for so long.
Ecen though there's an argument that women always find out, it's not just the men who are cheating, as one woman previously shared the rules she has followed in her 14-year affair.
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But now a woman who regularly sleeps with married men has shared some of her tips for spotting a cheat, and it's probably fair to trust her judgement given her experience with that very market.
Speaking to Daily Mail Australia, content creator and escort Micki Daniels exposed some of the biggest red flags for partners to keep an eye out for.
She even went through the different age brackets, suggesting that a man in his 20s is most likely to change his passwords or get angry if you want to look at their phone.
For men in their 30s, it's more about picking fights and leaving the home, simply as an excuse to go and meet up with his over lover.
“I've seen it happen: They pick fights as an excuse not to talk to you or to leave the house for some ‘space’ when in reality they are spending time with their lover,” she claimed.
This becomes more prevalent when they have no interest in talking over whatever ‘issue’ had upset them, says Daniels.
“If they come back and try to sweep things under the rug, you should reconsider what they were really up to,” she warned.
When it comes to the 40s, it's a 'sudden interest' in hygiene that should have you worried, although if they don't have an interest in hygiene you probably shouldn't be with them anyway.
Daniels explained: “If he is jumping in the shower as soon as he walks in the door, he could be trying to rinse off the smell of another woman.
Another ‘red flag’ sign to supposedly look out for is if he rushes off to the bathroom after engaging in sex with you.
Daniels continued: “One clear sign of a cheater is when there is zero aftercare or cuddling after sex. Instead he's bolting to the shower to wash you off him. That's a major red flag!
“Post-sex affection is linked to deepening connection between partners so if he's prioritising a shower in lieu of aftercare perhaps he's just having sex out of obligation.”
While it's expected that anyone would become more adventurous after having missionary for the last 20 years, Daniels suggested that men in their 50s who propose new positions might be hiding something.
“If he's sleeping with someone new, don't be surprised if he suggests sex positions he's never showed interest in before,” said Daniels.
“He may say he wants to incorporate porn or even toys to the bedroom when these activities were never previously on the table.”
Finally, when we get to the 60s, it's more about splashing cash, and it's worth keeping an eye on the random hotel charges for trips you seemingly weren't invited on.
Meanwhile, if they are still have enough energy to be out cheating in their 70s, maybe you just need to hold your hands up and say fair play to them.
James Moorhouse